Hello all you Twitternet meat hordes, and welcome to Ask Dr. NerdLove , the only dating advice column whose pre-orders are only available at 1 AM. What are the best practices when it comes to finding a no-strings attached hook-up? Is deciding to wait until marriage going to make it harder to find dates? I have a high sex drive which makes it tough to deal. Problem is, the type of people who are into one night stands or casual sex typically hang out in clubs or on Tinder, where my game is wack.
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Genuinely good sex is hard to come by, as are actually good, healthy relationships. We're big fans of having one without the other, as long as everyone involved is happy and safe and having a giant laugh. I cannot stand when people think the only environment in which you can have good sex is in a relationship. The best casual sex I ever had was with a guy I was relatively friendly with but not that close.
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Over the weekend, I spent some time with my dear friend Jack, a frequent contributor to Nerve. And yet, he's no geek: When he talks, you're mesmerized by the stories he tells, amazed by the books he waxes so eloquent about it, and laughing at the jokes he's always making. Plus, he's so rakishly handsome--with a thick swirl of ginger hair, a toothy smile, and high cheekbones--that I always have a moment of elevated heart-beating when I first see him again. As if all that weren't fantastic enough, he is a huge sweetheart: in addition to being attentive and sweet when we're hanging out, he also goes out of his way to help me in any way he can. Why am I not completely in love?
At least half of all problems associated with casual sex can be traced back to its name: People think that "casual" means the sex takes no thought and fits as comfortably as sweatpants. But the truth is, you have to date for years before sex gets like that. Monogamy does have a few benefits, after all! Here are ten steps to getting recreational sex right: 1. Be Nice Just because you're never going to see someone again doesn't mean that your manners should fly out the window.